Dominika Koder · Private Coaching
12-week private coaching for women who have been through the rupture and are done processing it.
Apply for a conversationYou made the call. The divorce. The move. The decision to leave the relationship, the job, the city/country, the version of yourself you'd outgrown. Most people around you didn't understand it. Some still don't.
Now you're in the in-between. Functional. Surviving. Sometimes even fine. But not yet the person you broke everything open to become — and the longer you stay in this space, the more it starts to feel like a betrayal of the decision you already made.
You don't lack clarity. You've been clear for a while now. What you don't have is structure, a plan you can see on paper, and someone who will hold you to it when you start circling back into your own head.
Most coaches will help you process what happened. I'm not that kind of coach. I'm the kind who helps you figure out what you're building next — and stays with you until you actually build it.
This isn't for women still deciding. Not for women who need six more months of processing before they feel ready. Not for women who want to be held, validated, and told the journey is beautiful.
I don't believe in the law of attraction as a substitute for decisions. I don't do vague insight work that leaves you with better self-awareness and the same life. I don't soften what I see in order to keep the session comfortable.
I work with women who have already had the rupture, who know what they want, and who keep getting in their own way. Women who are capable of moving much faster than they are — and who, somewhere, know it.
If you want someone who will tell you what's actually in front of you, stay with you while you move, and refuse to let you backslide into the thinking patterns that kept you stuck — we should talk.
This is a private, intensive coaching container built around one thing — you finishing it with a clear direction, a written plan, and the internal architecture to execute without collapsing back into the same patterns.
Not where you think you're stuck — where you actually are. The belief, the pattern, the dynamic that keeps pulling you back. We find it early, and we name it plainly.
A concrete vision of who you're becoming and what your life looks like. Not a vision board. A written map with real decisions and real timelines attached to them.
When you want to second-guess, stall, or spiral, I'm there. Between sessions I'm available every day via voice and text. By week five or six, you won't be talking about the past anymore.
Sessions are up to two hours. Frequency is adapted to how you work best — some clients prefer weekly, some prefer longer sessions every two weeks. The support between sessions is daily, regardless.
At the end of twelve weeks, you'll have four concrete things — written down, in your own words, yours to keep.
One of my clients came to me intelligent, hard-working, and completely stuck. She was circling the same conversations — about her partner, her job, her family — and couldn't see a way forward. She wasn't sure whether to leave her relationship, change careers, or go back to her parents. She'd been circling these questions for years.
Over the course of our work, she got clear on who she was and what she was here for — not in a vague way, but concretely. She stopped complaining and started deciding. She rebuilt her relationship on her own terms. She stood up for herself at work and with her family, in real, irreversible ways. She made the decision to have the child she'd been afraid to want.
She's now a mother. She told me that none of it would have been possible without this work.
— Client story, details anonymised
I'm not sharing this to impress you. I'm sharing it because I want you to know what's possible when someone shows up ready to stop circling and start deciding.
My name is Dominika Koder. I coach in English, Spanish, and Slovenian.
I know what this particular space feels like from the inside. I moved abroad as a single mother with no safety net, no local network, and a daughter who needed stability I was barely holding together myself. At one point I took a job as a receptionist — something I thought I was long past — not because I gave up, but because I didn't. I made a plan. We're moving to Madrid in two months. I haven't given up on myself. I never do.
I have training in psychotherapy and two years of hypnotherapy study — not because I want to be your therapist, but because I needed to understand the human psyche well enough to know the difference between a coaching problem and something that needs clinical support. Most coaches can't make that call. I can, and I'll tell you plainly if I see it.
My approach is direct. I see blind spots. I say what needs to be said — always with discretion and always with permission. I don't do vague. I don't mistake motivation for a plan. And I won't let you hide behind overthinking when what you actually need is to decide.
That's where we start.
This isn't for everyone, and I'm not trying to make it so. I work with a small number of clients at a time so that I can actually be present with each of them. If you're considering it, the first step is a conversation.
Apply for a conversationApplications are reviewed personally. If we're not the right fit, I'll tell you honestly — and where possible, point you toward what would actually help.